129 Conversation starters for couples

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Raquel Smith

Meaningful Conversations Starters

Here’s a list of 129 conversation starters for couples so that there’s never a dull moment:

Fun Topics

  • What is your favorite childhood memory?
  • If you could live in any fictional world, which would it be?
  • What is the best gift you have received?
  • What’s your ideal vacation place?
  • What’s your favorite season and why?

Relationship Questions

  • What’s your favorite part about our relationship?
  • How do you think we’ve changed and developed as a couple?
  • How can I be a better partner to you?
  • In your opinion, what’s our best memory?
  • How did you know I was “the one”?

Hypothetical Scenarios

  • If we won the lottery, what would be the first thing we do?
  • If you could have any superpower, what would you pick?
  • If we could retire tomorrow, where do we want to move?
  • If you could visit any fiction world for a day, what would that be?

Getting to Know You Questions

  • What’s something you always wanted to do but haven’t yet?
  • What’s your biggest fear?
  • What job do you dream of besides your own?
  • What’s on your wish list?
  • What’s your go-to book and why?

Funny Questions

  • What’s the most bizarre food you’ve eaten?
  • What is the most embarrassing outfit you wore?
  • What’s the most horrible haircut you’ve had?
  • What have you done to impress a crush?
  • What is your worst date that you had?

Deep and Thought-Provoking Questions

Fun Topics

  • What’s your best childhood memory?
  • If you could live anywhere fictional, which would you pick?
  • What’s the most special gift you ever got?
  • What is the location you wish to travel?
  • What season you like the most?

Relationship Questions

  • What do you love most in our relationship?
  • How do you think we as individuals have improved over the years?
  • What’s your favorite thing we do together?
  • How can I make our relationship better for you?
  • How do you think we’re different from other couples?

Reflective Topics

  • What’s the best lesson you have learnt in your life?
  • If time and money were no object, what hobby would you pursue?
  • What is your most thankful for in your life right now?
  • What is the top goal you are working on?
  • What new thing would you like to learn this year?

Hypothetical Scenarios

  • If we won the lottery tomorrow, what is the first thing that we will do?
  • If given the option, what superpower would you choose?
  • Would you prefer the power of flight or the ability to read minds? Why?
  • If you could visit a fictional world for a day, where would it be?
  • If you could live anywhere, where would your dream house be?

Lighthearted Questions

  • As a kid, what’s the most foolish thing you believed?
  • What is something you’d like to do?
  • What’s a movie or show you love secretly?
  • What clothing made you feel most embarrassed?
  • What’s the strangest food combination you like?

Exploring Family and Background

In bullet points, here are 50 conversation starters for couples:

Fun Topics

  • What is your biggest childhood memory?
  • If you could live in any world, which will you choose?
  • Mention something you have wanted to try, but not yet.
  • What was the greatest gift you’ve gotten?
  • What’s your dream vacation?

Relationship Questions

  • What’s your favourite part of our relationship?
  • How can I be a better partner?
  • How do you think our relationship has changed over time?
  • What do you feel are the key attributes to have a strong relationship?
  • How can you keep the love alive?

Reflective Topics

  • Who is a person you look up to?
  • What’s an accomplishment you’re proud of?
  • If you could travel back in time, what advice would you give your younger self?
  • What’s a belief you held five years ago, but don’t believe anymore?
  • What is your dream or goal right now?

Hypothetical Scenarios

  • If you won the lottery tomorrow, what’s the first thing you’d do?
  • If you could have dinner with anybody dead or alive, who would it be?
  • Would you like to be always 10 minutes late or 20 minutes early?
  • If you had to choose one, would you prefer to give up your phone or your TV for the entire month?
  • Would you want to be a great dancer or super funny?

Debate Topics

  • Should we live in the countryside or the city?
  • Do you think that technology connects us or drives a wedge between us?
  • Is it better to know the truth even if it hurts, or is ignorance bliss?
  • Should schools implement a dress code?
  • Do you think that money can buy happiness?
  • Is pizza good for your health?

Romantic and Intimate Conversations

Fun Topics

  • What’s your favorite memory as a child?
  • If it was up to you to choose a fictional world, which would you choose to live in?
  • What’s something you ever wanted to try but not yet?
  • If you had a day to yourself, what would you do?
  • Most memorable gift you have ever received?
  • What’s your ideal vacation destination?

Relationship Questions

  • What about our relationship do you love the most?
  • How could I be a better partner to you?
  • How do you think our relationship has changed in the last year?
  • What’s your favourite memory of us so far?
  • What can we do to keep the romance going as we age?

Reflective Topics

  • What’s the most impactful lesson you’ve learned until now?
  • What would you love to do if time and money were no issues?
  • Right now, what do you feel most thankful for?
  • What is your biggest regret and how it shaped you?
  • What’s the thing you want to achieve most?

Hypothetical Scenarios

  • If you could switch lives with any famous couple for one day, who would you choose?
  • What would an ideal Sunday morning look like?
  • If we had to move to a new city, where would we want to live?
  • If we could pick any business, what would we start together?
  • How would we spend our winning lottery money?

This or That

  • Mountains or beach?
  • Sweet or salty?
  • Movie night in or night out?
  • Road trips or plane rides?
  • Hike or bike ride?
  • Should I make dinner or get takeout?

Seasonal and Thematic Topics

Fun Topics

  • What’s your fav childhood memory?
  • I’d live in the world of Avatar if I could choose any.
  • What is something you never tried but always wanted to try?
  • If you were given one full day just to yourself, what would you do?
  • Share the best gift you ever received.
  • Where do you dream of going on vacation?

Relationship Questions

  • What is something you love about our relationship?
  • What’s your favourite thing we do?
  • How can I be a better relationship partner?
  • How do you think our relationship has improved in the past year?
  • What’s your favourite memory of us till now?
  • How can we keep getting closer?

Reflective Topics

  • Who has made a significant difference in your life?
  • What is one big thing you hope to achieve in the next 5 years?
  • What’s your biggest regret and what did it teach you?
  • What is a thing you care about deeply?
  • When do you experience maximum joy?

Hypothetical Scenarios

  • If I won the lottery tomorrow, I would buy my mom a car.
  • If you could have dinner with anyone in the world, dead or alive, who would it be?
  • Would you want to fly or be invisible?
  • Would you like to check out space or the ocean?
  • If you could pick your time period, which one would you live in?

Lighthearted Questions

  • What song do you really love secretly?
  • What was the worst haircut that you had?
  • What’s the most embarrassing item of clothing you’ve worn?
  • What’s the strangest dream you’ve dreamt about me?
  • What is something that bothers you a lot?